
Yesterday, Preston's soccer team, The Dragons, played their last game for the season. When I asked Preston how it went, he said, "We won, a lot to 2."
We had a party for the boys at Coach Dave's house. Coach Dave is a great coach, and he and his wife are some of the most gracious people I have ever met. I want to be like them.
Preston's team played so well this season, they caught the attention of the League President who said he had never seen 6 year olds play so well and pass to each other so much. One of the reasons for all the passing is that any one of the boys on the team could steal the ball and dribble all the way down the field and score. Coach Dave had to encourage lots of passing to keep them from running up the score.
So, here's my opinion on that topic. I have noticed that in kid soccer, the more a team gets ahead in the score the less the parents cheer when they make a goal. It's like there's a predetermined decible level that is considered polite for each point ahead your team is. If your team scores from behind or ties the score, you can clap and yell as loud and long as you want. If your team is one ahead you can still cheer pretty loud, but when you are two ahead then you can only cheer at 50%, then at three ahead you politely clap and say "yeah" quietly. Any more than that and it seems that your supposed to politely ignore the game. Well, if my child scores, no matter what the score is, I'm going to cheer as much as I feel like. He still did a good job; I feel just as much pride. The funny thing is, I also find myself cheering when I think a player on the other team does a good job too. I don't care who it is or what the score is, good plays should always be cheered. At least in kid soccer.
Perhaps that is why I'm a musician. I like to cheer whether it's the soprano that wins or the bass. I really like standing ovations and encores too. I like to think the audience can force performers to make more music by ceaseless clapping. It's nice to push people around with your own two hands. Makes me feel powerful. Ok, it's probably more like gratefully requesting more entertainment, but no matter how you look at it, it sure is fun.